How to Understand a Man

Here are some ways to help you understand a man's character and his attitude towards life.

STEPS

1. Let him talk.
2. Ask him a few minor questions and listen to his answers. (For example "what are you doing this weekend?")
3. Make general complaints and listen to his views. (For example, "what terrible weather we're having" or "the traffic's so bad")
4. Ask him about money matters ("the tax levels are so high, it's ridiculous isn't it?")
5. Ask him about his hobbies and interests.
6. Observe the way he treats people and the way he dresses.
7. Get to know his friends and family. If they get along well with you, and he acts the same around them as he does you, it's probably a good sign.
8. Ask him his views on issues that are important to you. It's probably ok if he disagrees with you sometimes as long as he's nice about it. But remember, if he disgrees with you on everything or something that is extremely important to you, it's probably not a good sign.
9. Pay attention to how he handles you. If he is agressive with his hands, leading you in and out by grabbing onto you consistently. Watch for more signs for future physical abuse.
10. Watch for signs of jealousy when you talk to or spend time with your male friends.
11. If he shows anger towards small happenings, it may get out of control when larger things happen.
12. Just be observant of his actions and don't let your heart over-rule your head!

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