Just remember those wonderful years, that you spend together with your beloved! Wow! Those amazing moments, which you still cherish and those fascinating memories, which bring a smile on your face, the list is indeed dazzling. Now just come back to the reality, as we are talking about the present scenario and now there is a word "ex" been placed as a 'prefix' before your beloved.

A relationship becomes a bit complicated, with the introduction of 'ex' in it. So, have you heard of men friends with ex-girlfriends?

This question is very much intriguing and the answer is also equally thought-provoking. Most of the men would agree with me, if I say that there is absolutely no problem in being friends with their ex-girlfriends, on the other hand, some men would think "Am I an idiot to be a friend with an ex?"

Hey! Hey! Hey! It is getting complicated, so just wait for a second and do a bit of introspection! Well! You got the answer.

No doubt, there is no problem in being "just- friends" with those who once used to be "more than just-friends" with you and just after giving this complicated statement, some thing strange is going on in my heart (Is that a symptom of a heart attack?)

Anyways! Opinions may differ but personally I believe that if a relationship is over, then it is quite difficult as well as not recommended to drag further the burden of this not-so-lovely relationship (and being a man I expect a huge support of my fellows).

If something is not working, then the need is to further strengthen it. The reduction of a lovely relationship to just a friendship, is not a cup of tea of men, like me. Well! Yes you got it right, I myself once tried to be friend with one of my "ex" and I ended up saying "I love you please, come back", which resulted in a sort of tsunami in my married life. My wife was about to divorce me and please don't ask about my ex's reaction after hearing those hilariously stupid words.

At the same time, I know some men who are friends with their ex girlfriend (I wonder if they have a heart of gold or a heart of stone), who look quite happy from outside but who know about those emotions, that are still hidden somewhere, like a sleeping but dangerous volcano.

I might be a bit one-sided in my opinion, but I strongly believe that men can never be just friends with their super-hot ex girlfriends, as after all, we all have a heart, that is known as a storehouse of beautiful feelings of the past. So, a man who says that he can be just a true friend for his ex girlfriend, is either lying or just fond of getting heart attacks.

The only way to get back in touch with your ex girlfriend, is to get her back in the same position in your life, the way it used to be. And for this, you can go through my article on, how to get your ex girlfriend back.